The Long-awaited Mr Han Chapter 3581 Untitled

This was precisely Dong Yujie's understanding.

They had only become an official couple today.

Marriage was something Dong Yujie had contemplated before.

However, she had never anticipated Jiang Huaizhou would bring up such a topic so swiftly.

Upon hearing this, Mrs. Dong remarked, "I'm quite prepared for your union. I always believed you two were destined to marry; it was never a question in my mind."

Jiang Huaizhou offered a smile at her words.

"I simply didn't foresee this happening on our very first official day together," Mrs. Dong added.

"It isn't our first day," Jiang Huaizhou corrected her.

"Oh? Why do you say that?" Mrs. Dong appeared taken aback by his statement.

Jiang Huaizhou explained, "When it comes to dating, the true beginning should be marked from the inception of the relationship. Prior to that, while there's mutual fondness, a deep understanding is often lacking. It's largely based on appreciating certain superficial qualities."

Jiang Huaizhou continued, "Indeed, the process of dating commences when a relationship officially starts. Before this point, a mutual attraction might exist, but profound understanding is scarce. It’s frequently built upon the appeal of surface-level traits. Only as individuals gradually get to know each other can a deeper comprehension develop, paving the way for a marriage decision. Dating and married life are distinct. During the dating phase, individuals tend to present their most favorable aspects to their partner."

"It is only through the gradual progression of dating that one can genuinely come to know another person, leading to the decision of marriage. Romantic relationships and marital bonds are not the same. In romance, one consistently showcases their best self. However, upon sharing a life together post-marriage, inherent differences in habits, beliefs, and even inevitable conflicts will eventually surface."

"Thus, so many individuals opt for cohabitation during their dating period. It's not solely because they can't bear to be apart, but also to foster a more profound mutual understanding."

"This is precisely why I harbor no concerns regarding such matters with Yujie. We've essentially known each other since childhood and possess an exceptionally deep understanding. I'm aware of everything, down to the moment Yujie experienced her first menstruation. I know her routines and peculiar habits, her preferences and dislikes. I'm aware of the celebrities she admired from a young age and the individuals she once fantasized about marrying as a girl."

Dong Yujie's cheeks flushed bright red. "Why are you suddenly bringing up such trivial matters?"

Those youthful, silly thoughts were now considered regrettable history.

Yet, Jiang Huaizhou retained knowledge of every single one.

Dong Yujie buried her forehead in her hands, a gesture of utter exasperation.

The embarrassment was overwhelming.

She had committed numerous foolish acts in her formative years.

Since childhood, she had perpetually been drawn to handsome, older male figures.

As a child, she would frequently change her celebrity crushes on a daily basis, captivated by the numerous good-looking personalities on television.

Whenever a popular idol drama took center stage, she, along with her classmates, would become completely engrossed.

Their shared enthusiasm led them to collectively purchase posters, adorning their rooms with them.

During holiday breaks at home, she found herself watching ancient martial arts and mythological television series.

She would observe the female protagonists, often depicted clad in white, gracefully floating, exuding an ethereal beauty.

She would then wrap herself tightly in her bedsheets.

Jiang Huaizhou had witnessed all these childishly silly incidents.

As she matured, Dong Yujie herself began to forget some of the more nonsensical things she had done as a child.

Dong Yujie was mortified; all her past immature follies had been unceremoniously unearthed by Jiang Huaizhou.

"Please don't be upset," Jiang Huaizhou quickly reached out, taking Dong Yujie's hand. "My intention was merely to convey that other couples hesitate to marry so quickly because they haven't yet attained a thorough understanding of each other."

"However, having spent over two decades alongside you, we possess an intimate familiarity. We have lived together for an extensive period. If we were to marry, the transition would be seamless, free from any clashes arising from differing lifestyle habits."

Jiang Huaizhou then turned his gaze towards Mrs. Dong. "Mom, this is precisely why I believe we shouldn't prolong this any further. We require no additional time for mutual discovery. My desire is to marry Yujie."

Jiang Huaizhou then directed his question to Dong Yujie, seeking her assent. "Yujie, I ask you now, will you… will you marry me?"

Indeed, their mutual understanding was already profound. They didn't need the conventional dating period to truly know one another.

Entering into marriage wouldn't alter their existing dynamic; everything would remain as it was.

They could even proceed with registering their marriage and continue their courtship afterward.

Since both had unequivocally chosen each other, why prolong the inevitable?

Dong Yujie glanced towards Mrs. Dong.

Mrs. Dong responded with a gentle smile, "Why are you looking at me? The decision rests entirely with you."

"Do as you see fit; proceed with what you believe is best," Mrs. Dong added with a smile.

Dong Yujie then turned to Jiang Huaizhou, her voice soft, "You won't regret this?"

"Truthfully, during our dating phase, it served as a period of reflection for you as well. You had the opportunity to consider our relationship. Should you happen to have second thoughts after we marry, we can part ways amicably," Dong Yujie stated.

"Even if we were to break up, I wouldn't hold it against you," Dong Yujie added.

"I haven't experienced any regrets this past year, and I don't anticipate having any," Jiang Huaizhou responded. "My only desire is to marry you as soon as possible. I wish to remain by your side always."

"I fret that if we don't marry quickly, you might just vanish," Jiang Huaizhou expressed.

"Very well. However, you must understand that if you regret this decision after our marriage, I will not interfere. But our relationship will not be the same as it was," Dong Yujie cautioned.

"I am choosing to marry you because I trust your word. Your promise holds absolute weight with me. I am prepared to entrust half of my life to you. Should you have regrets later, the outcome will not be pleasant."

"At the very least, we won't be on speaking terms until my dying day. If I become unreasonable, I will go to great lengths to ruin you. I will sacrifice everything for that purpose, just as I sacrificed everything to save you."

"As long as I hold such convictions, I will pursue that goal relentlessly," Dong Yujie declared. "Given the state of our relationship, we might not even be able to maintain a sibling-like bond."

"I will harbor hatred for you, and my heart will ache," Dong Yujie took a deep breath before continuing. "Are you truly ready for this side of me?"

"You claim we know each other well, yet we've both undergone significant changes this past year. Have you truly considered these transformations?"

Jiang Huaizhou offered a smile, his gaze fixed on Dong Yujie with unwavering resolve.

"I have contemplated these matters. My words come after careful deliberation. I am confident in my ability to see this through, which is why I speak now," Jiang Huaizhou stated.

"The scenarios you've described are ones I will actively prevent," Jiang Huaizhou assured her. "Yujie, are you willing to take a chance? To try marrying me? This way, you will witness firsthand my commitment to fulfilling all my promises to you."

"I will not fail you. I will ensure you never face such a predicament," Jiang Huaizhou vowed, retrieving a small box from his pocket.

Upon seeing the box, she immediately recognized it as a ring box.

As anticipated, Jiang Huaizhou rose and, turning his back to Mrs. Dong, knelt on one knee before Dong Yujie.

Dong Yujie then accepted the ring box, which was presented to her by Jiang Huaizhou.

Inside lay a diamond ring.

The diamond on the ring was notably substantial.

A surprised Dong Yujie inquired, "When did you… prepare this?"

"When you departed a year ago, I pursued you. Although I couldn't reach you then, you promised that it would only be for a year," Jiang Huaizhou explained. "You gave me your word that you would return after twelve months."